Deepthroating 101

​There are several guides and stories all over the Internet on this subject of giving blowjobs. Some are great and give various techniques and opinions on how to enhance oral sex on a guy. I’m not an expert but I do have skill, experience and above all, enthusiasm. 

In this post, I’m focusing on the deepthroating aspect because I feel a lot of girls don’t know how to. I’ve gotten really good at it and I’d like to pass my knowledge along to help those who might might need it. 

What is deepthroating? 
If a girl goes all the way down on a cock, gags, chokes, then immediately rises back up, this is a deepthroat. Normally, you have to keep it in your mouth for a particular time for it to be called one. You have to, not only swallow the dick, but bob all the way down on it. 

Only a low percentage of females can continually suck a cock while deepthroating it every time they go down. If you are one of the lucky few that can do this, then your man would be a very happy person. 

There are two factors that prevent anyone from deepthroating and they’re either physical or psychological. 

The psychological part of people is what determines the largest portion of their deepthroating skill. 

The physical barriers include the gag reflex, throat length, penis girth which is much more of a hindrance in this act over penis length, among others. 

Many times, our skill is predetermined but I do believe we can improve it. You can’t walk up to Ariana Grande and ask her to teach you to sing as as good as her no more than a deepthroat queen. If you don’t have the natural ability, you cannot be elite but you can improve with practice and it would be a shame to never realize your potential.

Even if you are great at it, the barriers I mentioned earlier, I mentioned, will still get in the way sometime. Even the elite will gag, cough, heave and eyes will water at some point. As you perfect your skill, those things will happen less often but they still will happen nonetheless. 

Girls, we all know when we have crossed over into extreme horniness or what I call “lust mode”. This happens with alcohol, great foreplay, love for our partner, great lead up sex or just a really hot guy who knows what he’s doing. 

When you are in that state, its the best time to attempt the act. Lust mode may shed that “claustrophobic feeling” of having an object lodged in your throat if that is your psychological barrier. When you are uninhibited, you become more daring, experimental and enthusiastic. 

A good blowjob starts and ends with enthusiasm. You have to like sucking dick and you have to want to suck dick. While some like giving blowjobs  others don’t. If you’re not interested in the act, the guy will sense it in your demeanor which will diminish his pleasure. I’ve also heard that as women grow older they perform fellatio less. I don’t know any older women I’m comfortable asking so I don’t have any valid opinion. 

If you sincerely want to please his cock, savor the taste, do all the little sexy non-verbal gestures and truly swallow every inch of it; he will absolutely love it. We can sense when a guy’s attitude is lackadaisical in eating our pussies and the guy knows when we are sucking his cock just because it’s “his birthday”. 

Before you try to get your man’s cock down your throat, be sure it’s lubricated. Of course with all the sucking, there will be excessive saliva built up in your mouth but much of it will either stay in your mouth or ooze out as drool. No doubt his cock will be lubricated but many forget to swallow to lubricate the throat. It’s also good to have a drink handy when giving blowjobs. Remember; the wetter your throat, the better his cock will slide down. Your throat is not different from any other other part of your body.

Our gag reflexes are different. While someone can swallow a 10 inch dick without trouble, some can’t gag when anything is in in their throat. We might have triggered our gag reflexes when we stuck our finger down our our throat trying to throw up. 

When we have a dick lodged in our throat, we have to think opposite. We are suppressing our body’s natural instinct to reject the object. How do we do that? There are a couple of techniques that may help. 

The first is practice. We can’t change our gag reflex but we can train it.  Some of the techniques are, shove it in really fast, very slowly, drive it back and forth quickly, try to swallow it and twist it around. 

The best advice I can give is to not think specific techniques work for everyone. Most information that I have read about directs people to relax and straighten their throat because that provides a better swallowing angle and suppresses the gag reflex. It can work for some people and be be different for others. Some people prefer to deepthroat with their chin down and tightening their throat muscles. 

To elaborate, you start out by locking or pressing your tongue down at the bottom of your jaw. You open your throat while keeping the muscles contracted. Once the head of his cock touches the back of your throat you push it down quickly without changing your throat position in any way. Quicker works for some buy sometimes it’s better to go slow to see what works best for you. When his dick reaches its destination and is completely submerged down your oesophagus, it is important to not pull it out completely when you start sucking. Give yourself some time to get used to it. Shallowly, bob up and down while barely moving the dick in your throat and keeping your tongue perfectly still. Moving your tongue transfers the feeling in your gag reflex which could cause you to gag. 

When you get more comfortable, you can “slide” the dick further distances until you are deepthroating. It’s important to breathe when it slides out. Try not to change the throat angle or the pace of the sliding cock until you have mastered your gag reflex. Even if you go to great efforts to keep everything consistent, there will be times in the heat of passion you’d choke or gag. There’s nothing wrong with pulling it out, regrouping and starting over. This is is the reason why you can’t deepthroat someone throughout an entire blowjob. 

Of course there are many positions to give a guy blowjob and to deepthroat in particular. Whether you are experienced and comfortable or just starting out, I feel the best position for for deepthroating is with both of you right side up. The first advantage is you keep your orientation because while on your knees or sitting down being right side up tells your brain everything is “normal” which allows you to focus on the task easier. Another advantage to this position is its easier to control the depth and thrusting speed of the cock. Your mouth or his cock are not fighting or supporting gravity. If you feel yourself start to gag, a quick pull off is easy plus you can use your hands to to press on his abdomen when when direction is needed. In addition, this position allows you access to his balls and ass. You can fondle, rub, cup jostle or play with his balls, you can add that extra sensation to make him cum quicker. 

Another recommended position is what I call, aligning to your lover’s penis. If his dick curves upward, attack it from the top like you would do while on top during a  69. If it leans to the left, then get on his left side and swallow it that way. Properly aligning your throat to his natural curve can help reduce friction in your throat which in turn could help reduce gagging. 

I don’t recommend allowing your man to fuck your throat, it might have complications. He may get caught up in the wanting to go faster or deeper than your comfort level allows.  However, if you do get to the point where you can handle him doing that, it can be very exciting and erotic. Make sure he’s aware of your “rules”.  

Once you have improved, its finally time to add some skills for his pleasure. One thing is to lick his balls while his cock is totally in your oesophagus. Smile at him, maybe even wink and rub your tongue back and forth on his nuts. Be careful not to stick your tongue out too far far because that releases the tension of gag reflex and can cause you to gag. You will have to find your own tongue technique that works best for you. 

Another skill to try during a good deepthroat job in clenching your mouth very tightly. Once you have him completely buried, clamp and remove the air trapped between your cheeks and his cock. This provides a different type of sensation, almost like a vacuum effect. When you start to bob in this position, it will feel like he’s fucking a virgin. You’d You’d have him cumming in no time. 

If you’re you’re willing to finish a guy while while deepthroating, you have to decide how you will receive his cum. It can be a lot trickier than it would be with just just a standard blowtorch. When a guy cums in your mouth, you can prepare by blocking off your throat with your tongue and let him empty without choking you. 

The second technique is when you suck it out like you’re drinking through a straw. Either way, it feels natural. Cumming in your throat is something completely different. It is more difficult but if you can master the technique, it also supplies a couple of advantages.

The cum shoots directly into your throat which is an advantage, bypassing the gag reflex and taste buds. So if you are one who hates the taste of semen, this is perfect and you are not swallowing until the end. 

Another advantage is you have the entire cock trapped. Every inch is completely lodged and secured in your throat, therefore he can’t jam it down your throat any further which keeps you in control and gives you a better ability to take it without him doing something unexpected.

There are also disadvantages to deepthroating an ejaculating cock. The first is the movement. Yes, you would have have better control when you have it completely swallowed, but as he is enjoying his his orgasm, he may twitch, shake or even buck and this could cause the the slightest change in your throat, triggering your gag reflex. 

Once you have deepthroated a cock, your throat will be sore. With all the trauma, it feels like you are catching a cold, so don’t be alarmed. 

I hope my tips and ideas would let you deepthroat like a porn star. Just remember to find what works best for you because no one method is for everyone. 

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